Various Internet polls show that most women know almost nothing about their sex organs. Are you one of these women? May be it is high time to get more familiar with your own genitals? You might ask - what do I need this for?

Believe it or not, it is very important to be closely familiar with your sex organs and to be aware of what each their part is designed for. This knowledge will allow you to learn more about your body and about your sexual response, to get rid of shyness, to become more self-confident and to enjoy happier sex life.

So what should you do?

Find some time when you can examine yourself without being disturbed by anyone. Disconnect the phone. You should think only about yourself, only about your wonderful body. It is really worth examining, it is really worth being known much about!

For this purpose you will need a mirror. Get naked and get down on a bed. May be you will need a flashlift there is nothing bad about examining yourself deeper!

Your external sex organs are usually called vulva. If you sit with your legs apart you will see that your sex lips (labia majora) open and you will see pink inner sex lips (labia minora). Usually, when your legs are not apart, labia minora is closed in order to protect your vagina and urethra.

The size of sex lips differs from woman to woman. Some women have big sex lips, other women have smaller sex lips. Actually, you should not worry about the size as in does not influence your libido and your ability to achieve orgasm.

Do you see something like a hood above your labia minora? Exactly here your most sensitive erogenous zone is placed. Perhaps you guess what is meant here. You are right: this is clitoris.

Clitoris is the main, the key part of your sex organs. The very its name says about its importance, as clitoris comes from Greek kleitons - a key. This is a real key - a key to your sexual enjoyment and to enjoyment of your partner.

The tissue which forms the body of the clitoris is very similar to the tissue forming the penis. When you get aroused the clitoris swells being filled with blood - this does remind of penile erection. As well there is a muscle which is analogous to the muscle responsible for your partner's ejaculation. This muscle contracts when you are experiencing orgasm, just like the muscles of the penis. Thus you can experience very enjoyable sensations caused by muscle contraction.

There are many legends and myths about clitoris, some of them are even believed in by modern sex therapists.

For example there is a myth about vaginal and clitoral orgasm. According to this legend, orgasm which is caused by stimulation of the clitoris with finger or with a sex toy (for instance with a clitoral vibrator) is not so intensive and enjoyable as orgasm caused through stimulation of the vagina with penis or a sex toy (a dildo or a vibrator). Even sex therapists claim that a girl can experience only clitoral orgasm, whereas vaginal orgasm she can achieve only after long and intensive exercising with a partner or with a female sex toy.

However, the idea about two orgasms is nothing more than a myth. Yeah, women do experience various sensations during orgasm, but men's sensations vary as well and nobody is speaking about difference between "penile orgasm" and "testicle" orgasm!

For some women it is enough to touch their nipples or other erogenous zone to make them orgasm. Other women need long and intensive clitoral stimulation with a sex toy or through oral sex , or vaginal stimulation with penis or a penetrative sex toy. No matter in what way you achieve orgasm, it is always caused by the muscle which surrounds the vagina.

When you dare examine your sex organs together with your partner, pay maximum attention to the way he stimulates your clitoris. He must be aware that this is a very sensitive organ which is full of nerve endings which give signals of pleasure to the brain.

Let him know that different women love different clitoral stimulation. Some of them squeeze tights, others love direct clitoral stimulation which can be provided with a vibrating sex toy or thorough oral sex. Some women love simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and vagina - this is possible due to a sex toy designed exactly for this purpose, it is called a rabbit vibrator. Let him know what you like and what you want him to do. He does want to know secrets of your pleasure!

Did you ever think why some women love lesbian sex? Well, some of them are true lesbians, but others have male partners and at the same time enjoy lesbian love.

The matter is not only that most women are bisexual  - either openly, or somewhere deep in their mind. A woman understands another woman much better even than the most loving man.

A woman will never penetrate her partner at the very beginning of the intercourse, before the partner got aroused enough. Actually besides fingers and sex toys she has nothing to penetrate her partner with. She does not penetrate her partner because of many reasons, for example

1. She knows that a woman needs a long foreplay

2. She might know that her partner does not experience vaginal orgasm. A woman is unlikely to let her partner know about this peculiarity, but she certainly will reveal this secret to a person of the same gender. Two women loving each other will certainly agree whether they will use penetrating sex toys or whether they are going to penetrate each other with fingers. Unlike men women know that penetration is not always needed for orgasm.

3. A woman knows that sex for her partner is the way to express her feelings, rather than simple satisfying need for sex. During lovemaking two lesbians communicate with each other, they give each other love and tenderness. Lesbian sex is not limited to fingering, indulging vagina with sex toys and cunillingus. It is communication of two bodies and two spirits. Unfortunately, this cannot be always said about sex between a man and a woman.

What to cunillingus, women do it much better than men. Men certainly know that cunillingus is an especial pleasure for a woman. The matter is that oral sex means for her more than stimulation of her erogenous zone. Most women take oral sex for a sign of an especial passion. Unfortunately most men think that moving their tongue as industriously as possible is the best way to give a woman real oral pleasure. A lesbian will never indulge her girlfriend's pussy this way. She will be tender and gentle and she will feel what her partner needs.

Would you like to give your partner as much pleasure as a lesbian can do? Than accumulate all your tenderness and love and express it. When you are caressing her clitoris your motions should be slow and gentle. Be attentive to her reactions - does she want you to be faster? Or may be she wants you to penetrate her vagina with your fingers or a sex toy? Do everything she wants! Make her orgasm again and again!

Now you certainly want to ask - what about penetration? Very often penetration and back-and-forth motions become the main thing for men. For many years penetration was something forbidden in lesbian sex as it was considered to be ugly imitation of heterosexual intercourse.

Now penetration is not a taboo. There are plenty of various sex toys lesbians use for vaginal stimulation. One of these sex toys is a double ended dildo that can be shared by two partners. But lesbians, unlike men do not consider penetration to be the main part of lovemaking. Actually, lesbians do not divide their lovemaking into foreplay and intercourse itself. They enjoy every minute of being together and giving each other pleasure.

A man who first of all cares about his partner's pleasure and does not wait impatiently until he can begin the intercourse itself will always be loved.  Though it might seem strange to you - behave sometimes like a lesbian!